Logatec library, info@knjiznicalogatec.si, +386 (0)1 754 17 22.
Talk about the book” How to bury a mother who is still alive " with the author Nadja Ebner, which will be conducted by her daughter Lejla Ebner.
When a woman, caught between the demands of motherhood and the shadow of her own past , seeks psychotherapeutic help, she hopes to find a new way to have a more authentic relationship with her almost teenage daughter. But the process, which was supposed to be aimed at the future, inexorably pulls her back – to a childhood marked by tension, alcoholism and unspoken pain .
On the therapy couch, a journey takes place to her interior, where a frightened girl still resides. Questions that she pushed into the background for too long are now screaming for an answer. How to heal a wound that has never had a chance to name? How not to repeat the stories laid in her cradle?
Will she be able to find a way out of the dark psychological forest ? Will she be able to heal the maternal wound that she herself inadvertently deepened? Will she be able to break the eternal cycle of returning to a frightened girl who can only freeze helplessly?
With an extraordinary psychological subtlety, the novel opens up space for reflection on motherhood , intergenerational relationships, the influence of family dynamics and silent myths about unconditional maternal love.
Knjižnica Logatec, info@knjiznicalogatec.si, +386 (0)1 754 17 22.
Pogovor o knjigi “Kako pokopati mamo, ki je še živa” z avtorico Nadjo Ebner, ki ga bo vodila njena hči Lejla Ebner.
Ko ženska, ujeta med zahtevami materinstva in senco lastne preteklosti, poišče psihoterapevtsko pomoč , upa, da bo našla nov način za pristnejši odnos s skoraj najstniško hčerjo. Toda proces, ki naj bi bil usmerjen v prihodnost, jo neizprosno potegne nazaj – v otroštvo, zaznamovano z napetostjo, alkoholizmom in neizrečenimi bolečinami .
Na terapevtskem kavču se odvije potovanje v njeno notranjost, kjer še vedno prebiva prestrašena deklica. Vprašanja, ki jih je predolgo potiskala v ozadje, zdaj kričijo po odgovoru. Kako zaceliti rano , ki je nikoli ni imela priložnosti poimenovati? Kako ne ponoviti zgodb, ki so ji bile položene v zibelko?
Bo znala najti pot iz temačnega psihološkega gozda ? Bo zmogla zaceliti materinsko rano , ki jo je sama nehote poglobila? Bo znala pretrgati večni cikel vračanja v prestrašeno deklico, ki lahko le nemočno zmrzne?
Roman z izjemno psihološko tankočutnostjo odpira prostor za razmislek o materinstvu, medgeneracijskih odnosih , vplivu družinske dinamike in tihih mitih o brezpogojni materinski ljubezni.
